In the typical divorce process, the attorneys for both you and your spouse
are responsible for the resolution process. The lack of communication between
you and your spouse creates tension and in many cases misunderstandings.
Traditional Legal Communication Structure
In mediation, you and your spouse meet with a neutral mediator who helps
you devise a plan for dividing your property, debts and parenting
responsibilities. Your plan is then written into a formal agreement which is
presented to the court as your settlement.
Mediation Communication Structure
You control the outcome
Mediation avoids many hours of court time as well as the escalating anger
and uncertainty that accompany protracted court proceedings. Consequently,
it results in significant cost savings and increased satisfaction for all
concerned.
Children in particular benefit from mediation because their parents are
resolving their divorce issues in a private, cooperative setting instead of
a courtroom. The problem-solving skills that the family learns during the
mediation process provides a model for future dispute resolution.
